Frequently asked questions
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WILL YOU MARRY US ON A FRIDAY? Unfortunately unless its a public holiday, after 5:30pm in the CBD or in that magical period between Christmas and New Year when the office world shuts down, I'm unfortunately unavailable for Friday weddings as I work full time as a lawyer in the Perth CBD. CAN WE MEET YOU BEFORE WE BOOK YOU? Of course! Its important to me that you book the right celebrant for you - and part of that is making sure we click. As I've said above, I do work full time so I can meet you in person on a free weekend, or if you don't want to wait that long, lets FaceTime instead! ARE YOU LGBTIQA+ FRIENDLY? Absolutely - I was a strong supporter of marriage equality and am welcoming to all lovers, however you identify. Please let me know your preferred pronouns when you contact me so I get it right. ARE YOU PART OF A CELEBRANT ASSOCIATION? I'm a proud member of The Celebrant Society, a recognised celebrant association, working towards improving the celebrancy industry, one wedding at a time. TCS provides me with insurance cover too, in case you are wondering. |
HOW LONG IS YOUR TYPICAL CEREMONY?
It depends entirely on each couple and what you want included in your ceremony. While, on average, my ceremonies take roughly 15-20 minutes, this may be lengthened or shortened by the inclusion of personal vows, rituals or other things that you may want. The more information you give me about yourselves in your questionnaires, the longer (and better) your ceremony will be. The beauty of this is that your ceremony will be completely about your relationship, so the time will go by in a flash for both you and your guests.
DO WE HAVE TO HAVE THE SAME VOWS?
Again, a personal choice - personally, I love it when couples have different vows - it shows that you have really put thought into what you are promising the person you love. If writing your own vows isn't for you, you are welcome to use one or a mixture of the vows I will provide to you in my Ceremony Manual. This doesn't mean you have to choose the same vows as each other. As long as you say the legal vows, the world (or in this case, your ceremony) is your oyster.
WHO CAN BE A WITNESS TO MY MARRIAGE?
You must have two witnesses aged 18 or over to witness your marriage ceremony and sign your marriage certificates. The witnesses must be able to hear you exchange vows, but there is no nationality requirement.
HOW EARLY SHOULD I BOOK MY CELEBRANT?
As early as possible once you know the date of your wedding. In Australia, unless there are special circumstances which allow the grant of an exemption, all couples planning to marry must sign a Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) in the presence of their celebrant at least one month prior to their wedding. As such, couples should book their celebrant more than a month prior to their wedding to ensure the legality of the ceremony.
WHAT DOCUMENTS SHOULD WE BRING TO MEET WITH YOU?
I will need to identify you in order to complete the legal documentation and solemnise your wedding.
It depends entirely on each couple and what you want included in your ceremony. While, on average, my ceremonies take roughly 15-20 minutes, this may be lengthened or shortened by the inclusion of personal vows, rituals or other things that you may want. The more information you give me about yourselves in your questionnaires, the longer (and better) your ceremony will be. The beauty of this is that your ceremony will be completely about your relationship, so the time will go by in a flash for both you and your guests.
DO WE HAVE TO HAVE THE SAME VOWS?
Again, a personal choice - personally, I love it when couples have different vows - it shows that you have really put thought into what you are promising the person you love. If writing your own vows isn't for you, you are welcome to use one or a mixture of the vows I will provide to you in my Ceremony Manual. This doesn't mean you have to choose the same vows as each other. As long as you say the legal vows, the world (or in this case, your ceremony) is your oyster.
WHO CAN BE A WITNESS TO MY MARRIAGE?
You must have two witnesses aged 18 or over to witness your marriage ceremony and sign your marriage certificates. The witnesses must be able to hear you exchange vows, but there is no nationality requirement.
HOW EARLY SHOULD I BOOK MY CELEBRANT?
As early as possible once you know the date of your wedding. In Australia, unless there are special circumstances which allow the grant of an exemption, all couples planning to marry must sign a Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) in the presence of their celebrant at least one month prior to their wedding. As such, couples should book their celebrant more than a month prior to their wedding to ensure the legality of the ceremony.
WHAT DOCUMENTS SHOULD WE BRING TO MEET WITH YOU?
I will need to identify you in order to complete the legal documentation and solemnise your wedding.
- If you hold an Australian passport, you should bring this as evidence of your place of birth. If you were born in Australia but do not have an Australian passport, you should bring your birth certificate.
- If you were not born in Australia and you do not have an Australian passport you should bring your overseas passport (current or expired but not cancelled) or birth certificate. If you were born overseas and you do not have your birth certificate or a foreign passport, you will be required to complete a statutory declaration. You must also bring photo ID (such as a drivers licence).
- If you have been previously married, you should bring evidence of the termination of that marriage (whether by divorce, annulment or death of your former spouse).
- If you have changed your name, you should bring evidence of the change of name.
- If you have any other special circumstances (for example, you may be a minor or are applying to be exempt from the 1 month notification period of the NOIM), please contact me to ask what you should bring.
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